This weekend has been one of tremendous heartache, chaos, and anger.
It’s not news that people have big feelings about Trump, and seeing footage of someone trying to kill him made people feel scared.
Fear is the universal emotion I am hearing from everyone I interact with. It’s terrifying that we live in a place where the most heavily guarded man in the world can still come within a literal inch of his life. It’s horrific that someone can just climb onto a rooftop and squeeze the trigger before anyone can intervene.
It’s scary to think about what comes next.
I am not going to speculate about the shooter’s motive or how he could have gotten past security. I don’t know, and frankly, it’s not my job to find out.
But what I do want to talk about is where we go from here.
And in my mind, there is only one answer.
And that is away from dehumanization, away from violence, away from hatred, away from fear.
And toward the path that seems harder to tread. But it’s the path that leads us into the warm sunshine of truth, and of justice, and of peace.
The path that leads to beauty is not full of taunts or wishes for evil to befall anyone, even if that person wishes that evil should befall you.
I hope you know that love will win. That right temporarily defeated is still stronger than evil triumphant.
Martin Luther King said, “The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. Instead of diminishing evil, it multiplies it. Through violence you may murder the liar, but you cannot murder the lie, nor establish the truth. Through violence you murder the hater, but you do not murder hate. In fact, violence merely increases hate…returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars.
“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”
This, my friends, is a dark night of the soul, one that is entirely devoid of stars.
But there is light to be found. All you have to do is light a candle. And then use your candle to light the candle of another.
More darkness will not cure the darkness we find ourselves enveloped by. Only light can drive out darkness.
And so today, may we all look for ways to be the light. To our families. To our neighbors. To our coworkers, to the citizens of the internet. We can do for one what we wish we could do for everyone. One small light can drive away the darkness.
Where we go from here is toward the light.
I am grateful for you. Thank you for being here.
"Happiness can be found in the darkest of times of only one remembers to turn on the light."
-Albus Dumbledore
Thank you for turning on the light, Sharon.
I am a queer single parent of a herd of boys, and Donald Trump's rhetoric and the people who choose to go along with it have had dramatic effect on my family in very real ways. I am acutely aware that if he wins the presidency, I may lose my right to foster children any longer, and many other rights could be taken as well.
As much as I hate that my kids are growing up in a world where their parent's existence is on the chopping block every election, I also hate that they're growing up in a world where violence prevails. It's sickening and heartbreaking and everything in between.
Yet as much as I hate the political violence from this weekend, I wish that so many of the right-wing pundits cared this much when classrooms of six year olds are gunned down.
I'm sick of gun violence, and I'm sick of guns, and I'm sick of violence.
This weekend I felt like I was watching a movie. A movie that was full of lies. Everywhere I turned people were saying how horrible it was to be a liberal. How could that be ? I have spent much of my life championing others! Loving on others. It use to be a joke in my family that I was a tree hugger. Back in the day that is all it was for me… I would shake my head and go back to living my life.
Since 2016 I have become tired..exhausted to the core. I have protested, rallied, helped, supported, given, lost relationships, learned and encouraged. The fatigue is real. My candle has melted
I WILL light a new one because it is what is right. I WILL reach out because that is what I do!
Thank you all that read this … you are what is right in my world. Much love