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Toni McLellan's avatar

I just came on here to say that I haven't read this yet, because I have two young adult trans daughters and my heart cannot take reading coverage about it yet. But I've saved it for when I am ready to read it, because I respect Sharon's ability to cover this topic and others in a fact-based, informative way.

For those of you reading this who don't know any trans people or their families, my girls are the kindest, sweetest, most creative and generous and smart and funny people. I think anyone reading this would love and appreciate them if they met them. They are not punchlines, they have good medical care by trained professional physicians and staff, and they deserve to live their lives as they are, without fear. One of them is terrified to use public restrooms because she's scared another woman will "scream at her." Do you know how much that limits a person's ability to exist in the world? Recently a woman yelled at a trans person in my town for existing. Just yelled at her. For existing.

This is not okay. We have to do better than this. We have to be better than this. If you're scared for children regretting transition, then explore that fear. Talk to people. Attend a PFLAG or Pride meeting and ask questions, face to face. Get off the meme machines and educate yourself rather than just giving in to blind fear that I believe was cynically manufactured to create that fear in people to generate votes. Please. We are real people, families, with hopes and dreams for the best possible future, just like you. If anyone reading this wants to ask me anything in good faith, please message me or ask here and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

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I feel this deicision should be left up to parents and their minor children. Once again, I don't think the government needs to stick their nose in this issue. There are so many highly important problems that impact children like guns, where they could truly make a difference, and yet they do nothing. Something that is a real threat to every day lives, where one's life could be lost, is somehow less important. How this is somehow more threatening than gun restrictions is mindblowing.

Can children, with parental consent, get a nose job? Or breast implants? If they answer is yes, then in my humble opinion, this too should fall under that catergory. A decision made with a parent, their doctor and child. If hormone therapy is that life threatening, how about we not offer it to women? Regret and joy are the chances we take with every decision.

I see this as just another conservative fear. Fear of someone different. Fear of not understanding or willingness to understand. Fear that it might impact birth rates. I don't know. It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me, but I'm sure I'll hear more in the comments. Maybe a view point that I never thought of?

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