The Preamble

The Preamble

Your Emotions Are Information, Not Instructions

The uncomfortable truth about “protecting your energy”

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Amanda E. White, LPC
Apr 04, 2026
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“I think you might be using your feelings as a reason not to do things,” my therapist said, pulling her glasses off. Her words knocked the wind out of me. Obviously, I didn’t go back after that session.

She was the one who first taught me about my emotions. Before her, I didn’t have language for what was happening inside me. I just knew something was wro…

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Amanda E. White, LPC
Licensed therapist bridging the gap between therapy speak and real life. Co-host of Nuance Needed podcast, founder of Therapy for Women Center. Writing about the nuance of mental health and parenthood ambivalence.
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