The Preamble

The Preamble

What Do We Owe Each Other?

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Amanda E. White, LPC
Nov 27, 2025
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My client spent two hours setting up for her birthday party. She’d sent e-vites three weeks in advance. She assembled a drink station with everyone’s favorites and made a playlist. Twenty people had said they’d come. Instead, four showed up, and three of them left early.

She sat on her couch at 9 p.m., surrounded by unopened bags of chips and melting ice…

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Licensed therapist bridging the gap between therapy speak and real life. Co-host of Nuance Needed podcast, founder of Therapy for Women Center. Writing about the nuance of mental health and parenthood ambivalence.
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