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Michelle Williams's avatar

In 2001, I graduated high school and headed off to college. My parents had saved enough to cover one year of tuition, room, and board. After that year it became clear to me that I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do. I had started thinking I wanted to become a teacher, and quickly changed my mind after some student teaching experiences that made me realize it’s not for me (seriously, all of you that are teachers are AMAZING).

I went on to get married in 2004, and began to slowly work toward obtaining a degree in business, despite making about $10 collective dollars an hour between my husband and myself. Grants covered some of it, but the rest was student loans. I didn’t understand compound interest when I signed that paperwork, I was just grateful for the opportunity.

In 2009, my son was born and college got put on hold. In 2014, I’d decided it was time to go back! My son was preparing to start kindergarten and it felt manageable to do some schoolwork during the day while he was gone (I was working mid shifts to help minimize daycare bills). Then, my son woke up with knee pain that led to a cancer diagnosis a week later. He fought for his life through a three year treatment cycle that cost 1.5 million dollars. Through that time, my husband lost his job so we were living on one income, and I was still going to school full time working on that degree.

Almost eleven years later and my son is in full remission and fully recovered. I graduated last year with a 4.0 from a local college. We’ve paid off the multiple tens of thousands of dollars in medical debt from his treatment (just last year!), although he still has thousands per year in medical costs from treatment of the “after effects” that no one warns you about.

We will die with our student loans. It’s something I’ve accepted and I only borrowed $35k. It’s grown to almost $60k, in spite of all the payments I’ve made on it. I’ve accepted that consequence in return for my son being alive and well.

It’s so disheartening to see all the “you took the loan, you owe the loan” comments all over social media. In most cases, I agree. These loans, however, are insanely predatory and we are signing away our lives at EIGHTEEN YEARS OLD.

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Jordan Foster's avatar

I never understood why they won’t cap the interest rate on these loans. Why are college loans at a higher rate than buying a house? If we want a well-educated country we need to prioritize this. I am fortunate to be able to pay down my loans, but I am a nurse practitioner have been paying for 13 years and have 12 to go. I can’t save for my kids future because I’m still paying off my debt so this cycle will continue for my family.

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