Stop Waiting to Feel Ready

Sometimes delay is just a way to hide from a decision

For a year, my client Julia told me she wanted more community. More friends. The kind of people who’d come over on a weeknight, who’d text just to check in. Every session I’d ask what was stopping her. She didn’t know enough people yet. Her apartment wasn’t big enough. What if she invited people and only one or two showed up and it was awkward? She alwa…